Crush Probability: Decoding Non-Verbal and Behavioral Signals of Mutual Attraction
A behavioral science perspective on evaluating whether someone reciprocates your romantic interest before taking the leap.
David Sterling •
The Science of Reciprocal Romantic Interest
Calculating whether your feelings are reciprocated involves observing behavioral patterns over time rather than isolated gestures.
High-Fidelity Interest Indicators
- Proactive Communication: Initiating messages and asking open-ended questions about your life.
- Physical Proximity & Posture: Leaning in during conversations, uncrossed arms, and sustained eye contact.
- Micro-Memory: Remembering small details mentioned in passing days or weeks prior.